So today I’ll like to go into some basic things you need to understand as your role as a man and the role of a woman in an interaction.
Now this can be applied to relationships as well so pay attention.
As we all know society has a huge role to play in how we perceive the world. Society can shift and change our perceptions on a lot of things. Now in most cases this is a good thing.
For example society shows us in the media a guy trying to rob a bank, he then gets shot down by the police. It shows us it’s a bad thing to go and rob a bank and you could get killed. The average person would probably be scared and will now never think about robbing a bank.
If we didn’t have society to tell us these things, we would’ve only know about it by first hand experience, meaning actually going to the bank and get show down.
However, even if society is here to help us. It also damages us in so many other ways. People are easily manipulated and our perceptions changed by a flick of a button. We aren’t as smart as we think we are. Most of our views are barely our own and are shaped by the media and society.
So how has this affected our perception on the male to female relationship roles.
Well men are told to be more feminine. Be more in touch with your emotions. Stand in the rain and shout I love you to a girl. Chase her. Never give up because it’s true love. Show her how much you LOVE HER even though she just cheated on you or ran away from you with her bag full of your money.
Women are told to be prudes. Don’t be sluts. Being a slut is bad you will be judged. Be the nice girl next door like in the movies.
These are all ideas spawned from the media and society. Their intentions were probably not to change people’s perception on how they should live their lives or their perception on relationships. However, it has indirectly affected us. It has indirectly changed our perceptions and mindsets. It has resulted in many ruined relationships, marriages and frustrated men & women.
Most men have a Disney fabricated view on how relationships should be. They are taught to indulge emotionally in a relationship completely. Leaving them becoming emotionally reactive little girls.
Just look at the difference between men back in the 50′s and now.
Women are also suppressed into roles which simply doesn’t work. Being the strong independent career woman. Being better than men. Being emotionally strong and unaffected by the world. Practically becoming more masculine. This has only come to pass in recent years changes in our society. But never have there been more single unhappy women. Women who have created successful careers for themselves but are lacking in the home front. lacking love and emotional connection.
This has to be changed.
Men need to start being real men and women need to start allowing themselves being women.
A man’s role is being strong. Being emotionally centered. Their job is being the rock in their woman’s life as well as their family. If there are any problems people should come to you for help. This is how you as a man should be perceived. Not some distress little boy getting emotional over anything and turning to yesteryear’s punk inspired rebel music.
As said earlier, you’re job as a man is to be centered and strong for your woman. You are there to allow her to be a woman allow her to be emotional. Allow her to take off her responsibilities and just act free. Letting her dance. Letting her express her female energy. If you are not able to do that then you are not man enough for her.
A woman’s role is to express that female energy which is the opposite energy of the man. Believe it or not. Men love women who acts as women. Men love women who are feminine. Men love the women who smell of women. Men love the way women look. We men are sensory creatures. We enjoy the sight, smell, sound and touch of a woman. Lastly, a woman’s role is also to support her man when he needs it.
If a man and a woman can adopt his and her role. Then their relationships will become much healthier and enjoyable. It doesn’t guarantee a happy relationship that will last forever. But it will allows you to be who you truly are and do what you truly want, which allows your partner to do the same. If what you want is not your partner, then it’s best to separate your ways.
So how does this help you to go and meet women?
Act as a man and assume your role as a man. When you walk up to a woman. Be a man.
Don’t get emotionally upset if she’s throwing tantrums and bitchy things along your way.
She’s trying to see if you get upset like the 100s of other weak men she met tonight. Don’t be like them
Show her you can handle her. Show her that no matter what she does. You will still be here. You will still be unmoved by her bullshit.