For all of you guys that done that you’ve probably realized that this method rarely works, but is consistently expensive.

Getting a girlfriend doesn’t not require you to spend money on a particular girl. Any girl who demands you pay for her expenses are heartless gold diggers.  Avoid them at all cost.

The best way to get a girlfriend is by consummating the relationship as quickly as possible and spend more time with that girl. It’s basically that simple.

If you fulfill a girl’s needs which consist of sex, emotional excitement and arousal then it’s only a question of time before she wants a committed relationship with you.

So let’s break it down.

You meet a girl in a social environment i.e. a bar, club or any event. You attract her and arouse her to the point she wants to have sex with you. You play it by the book and take her to a location where you can have sex i.e. consummate the relationship. You wake up with each other, you might even have sex again and then she leaves. The following weeks you continue to see each other and have sex. You enjoy each others company as well as getting to know one another better. You start to see each other more and more frequently. She comes over to do normal things with you like have dinner or watch a movie. As time goes by she hints at a relationship and you have to give her an answer.

This is the classic text book way of ending up in a committed relationship and getting a girlfriend.

As you can see the difference is that the guy is not coming from a needy place. He doesn’t NEED a girlfriend. It just happens from meeting a girl and being an attractive guy. He doesn’t try to get a girlfriend it just happens.

Now where most guys fail is that they mess up one part of the interaction.

Some examples could be:

• You gave her bad sex
• You were boring
• You were needy and reactive
• You were being an asshole
• You got played

These are elements you can work on so don’t lose all hope.

Realize that getting into a relationship is a natural process, when you are an attractive guy who has his shit together. The girl recognizes this and is attracted to you. The more time you spend with her and satisfying her needs. The quicker she will opt for a relationship should you want it.

Buying gifts and doing stuff out of your way is not the way to get a girlfriend. But it sure is the way to get people to take advantage of you.

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Good places to find a potential girlfriend?

The obvious places would be clubs and bars. Don’t care about what people say about you can’t find a decent woman in a night club and such environments. I’ve met 100s of great women and it’s the only places where you can meet a large amount of women in one place. They are also more in a social mood and are likely more inclined to socialize with you.

However, it shouldn’t discourage you from seeking other venues.

Some of my favorite places to meet women actually occurs during daytime. You don’t need to go to bars and clubs to meet women at all. I personally like to go out and party with my friends, however you could just as well go down to your local mall and you’ll find plenty of women there.

Some places I favor are:

• Coffee Shops
• Parks
• Library
• Grocery stores
• Events / Concerts, festivals etc.
• The shopping district

The above places are great places to find a potential girlfriend. You just need to man up and actually go approach them. Women we’ll usually act shocked or surprised since most men don’t approach her during the day. This will already make you stand out compared to the 100s of guys she met this month.

If you do approach a woman during the day. Be genuine. Be certain of yourself. Don’t lie about asking about the time or asking for directions to places you already know. That’s fake and women can smell that from miles away. Instead be true to your intentions. Why are you there? Why are you talking to her? Because you are interested in her. Because you found her attractive.

But that doesn’t mean you should give it all away. She’s just a woman that piqued your interest. How can you truly like someone without knowing who they are and what they are about. So instead tell her you found her attractive in your own words. But then get to know her. Get her to tell you about her and see if she’s a girl you would want to date. Have some standards guys and don’t just take anything you get.