Realize that only 10% of our communication consist of words.

Which means that 90% of communication comes from things such as body language, sub-communication and physical touch.

The common defining factor between a friendly interaction and a sexual one is usually physical touch. However, most men are afraid of being too physical with a woman which just shows her your lack of experience and selfassurance that you can dominate her physically. This is obviously less attractive to her compared to a guy who is confident in handling her both emotionally and physically.

You need to start getting physical or you will risk loosing the interaction.

Here’s a quick guideline of physical moves you can do:

• Hand holding
• Hug
• Arms/hands around her waist
• Carrying her
• Arm around her shoulder
• Kissing

The above list is just guidelines and are not meant to be followed in a step by step manner. You can easily switch things around and do what you feel is comfortable at the time.

There are many reasons for why you should get physical straight off the bat. Some of them are:

Man-to-Woman

You establish a man-to-woman communication very quickly. Most guys have issue getting out of the friend-to-friend communication which is the biggest reason why they end up in the friend zone. They don’t show the girl what intentions they have with her and by being physical, you can easily and directly show her your intentions indirectly.

Creating Attraction

Getting physical will create attraction between you and her. How many guys goes straight on physical on a woman? Not many. This immediately distinguishes you from the average guy and immediately makes you a lot more attractive.

Closing the Deal

While you are physical with the girl you will quickly build up the attraction which eventually leads to you being able to close the deal. You can either go for the kiss, the number or take the girl home. What ever you decide to do is up to you. But physicality will get you there a lot quicker.

But what if I feel uncomfortable doing it?

It’s completely fine and normal to feel uncomfortable or nervous. If you haven’t been a physical kind of guy throughout your life, it’s definitely going to take some time for you to get used to it. Start slow. A simple high five or a hug is plenty to begin with. Once you build enough confidence and courage to do more. Try some hand holding or carrying/lifting the girl up a bit. When you are ready go for the kiss or kiss her neck. Getting closer and closer to her.

It’s usually not going to take too long for you to get used to it. But it requires that you keep going out and meet women. It requires that you apply this day by day until you are comfortable with touching women.

You will find that you will have a lot more successes and how physicality literally can increase your success rate by 200% or even more.